Babe- what if it actually is just that difficult?
It’s not you.
It’s not that you need to give more, be more, do more.
It’s not that you’re not enough.
It’s not that your kids/ your family/ your work/ your blah blah blah is suffering.
What if it’s actually that you’ve been given the work load of three people? What if what actually needs to happen is not that you are externally more SUPPORTIVE but instead that you are more SUPPORTED?
Just let that settle for a bit.
You are smashing it in a completely rigged, unfair, self perpetuating system that puts you at the bottom of the deck and demands more of you than you in fact have the resources to give.
You’re not the problem here.
You are the heroine. Make sure you tell yourself so.